Online dating calling
But somehow, I haven't managed to get excited about doing it.Is it just me or is there something about this that smacks of trying too hard?
On the phone, simply the sound of the other person’s voice plays an important part in how you establish a rapport.
He or she might have just had an unexpected (and unwelcome) visit, or burnt the dinner.
If you ask at the beginning of the conversation whether it’s a good moment, don’t be too disappointed if the other person is tied up. “It’s perfectly normal to be a little excited in this kind of situation and in general it has a positive effect.
You should also avoid leading questions, where you basically provide the answer yourself! The other person will be able to hear the smile in your voice.
You’re not pushing insurance policies or double glazing over the phone, but you need to sell yourself - and it’s surprisingly easy to do. It’s a trick that works for people selling double glazing and it can work for you. If you go in thinking “this is never going to work,” it will come out in the conversation, so think positive and believe it’s all going to work out.